An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a
pole which she carried across her neck.
One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.
At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.
For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water.
Of course , the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.
But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.
After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream:
"I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to
leak out all the way back to your house."
The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?"
"That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them."
"For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table.
Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."
E ach of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.
You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the
good in them | 
... i am making muffins ar...at 10:30pm... i guess i am really bored!! but the process made me so satisfied... i like to watch ppl eat my food, nice food of course! so sweaty right now watching in front of the oven...hehe but the muffins smell so nice! hope my workmates will like them 
U wouldnt believe when they, out of no where, give you a feedback. ?!?! aiya...when will I have my own kids lei? so wanna be a young mother tim.. . Anyway, after yum cha went shopping with dad and bro for mother's day. Decided to buy a paif of nice elegant but still "IN" sunnies for mom. mom will become soooo COOL... I always wanna buy one but too expensive dun wanna waste $...Still bought a paif of black glasses to wear to work..hehe I look more mature lu :) no more 15 year old pls? ok?
so yeah a very strange feeling right now...
Well, I have my own cozy room so I dont complain lor 
(so if you are reading this...fai d earn more $$ and get your bum here asap hehe...)